How can I help after a friend's death

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Q: Hello Bridge Beyond,

A friend of mine recently died. I'm not so sure what to do... I would like to help, but don't know what's appropriate.

Thanks for any tips.

signed,
Karen
A: Dear Karen,

Upon learning of a death, intimate friends of the family should visit the home to offer sympathy and ask if they can help. The family may need help with errands or taking care of children while they attend to details of the service.

If you do not know your friend's family very well, perhaps you may prefer to visit the family at the funeral home. This setting may be more comfortable for you and the family, as they are prepared for visitors.

If in doubt, give the family a call and ask if you can lend a helping hand. They will appreciate the support and let you know if you can be of assistance. Remember that even if they don't need your help at the time you call or contact them, you offer of support is very much appreciated.

Julia, your Bridge Beyond Guide
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